"Be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry."
That is one of my life verses. I think it all the time. You can't take words back. Once you say them, they are out there. Ever question the damage words can do? Read the book of James.
I see proof of that damage every time Brett hangs up the phone after listening to ten minutes of screaming. I want to be a graceful, Godly woman. I am supporting and nurturing and I will bandage his wounds every time that he lets me. But how many times do you fall down in a fight before you decide to stand up to the bully? Or in my case, how many times do I watch someone that I love take a beating before I decide to step in?
I am reaching my limit. But I want to watch my words. Once they are out there, I can't take them back.
God, grant me the SERENITY to accept the things I cannot change, the COURAGE to change the things I can, and the WISDOM to know the difference.
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